Silly Queen

1:12 PM

Sunday, February 11, 2007

Middle-Borns
Positives: The classic middle-born is very relational, tends to be a people-pleaser and usually hates confrontation. Their basic need is to keep the oceans of life smooth, and their motto might be 'Peace at any price.' They are usually very calm, will roll with the punches, and are amiable, down-to-earth, and great listeners. They are skilled at seeing both sides of a problem and eager to make everybody happy. That makes them good mediators and negotiators.

Negatives: They tend to be less driven than first-borns, but are much more desirous of having everybody like them -- or at least happy with them. They have a difficult time setting boundaries. They can drift into becoming 'codependents' as they try to please everybody. They are not good at making decisions that will offend others. They also tend to blame themselves when others fail.

Labels: Birth Order =)